My wife and I were dating for about three years before we got married.  We were 36 and she was 33.  She got me to tell her of my fantasies while dating. I do not know about other guys, but my Fantasies I keep well protected, close to my heart and I am embarrassed by them when others find out what they are.

She was surprised some were mild and some were a little hard.

I have always liked women who wear plain, wide, silver or gold wedding rings.  Bracelets, Necklace, and ankle chains as well.  Long nails, and multiple pierced ears, pretty tame!  Here’s the kink.  I like a woman when wears all of it all the time 24/7. The bracelets should be non-removable by her.  Either worked with the help of another person and soap, or placed on then soldered closed the better.  I have seen several gold necklaces that were silver soldered into place as well.

It’s a turn on when a woman struggle with trying to take off rings.

Here is the hard side:  I like tattooed women with a strong sex drive.  It’s a turn on to me for women to crawl on top and F**** or tells me to get on top and do it harder, deeper, and faster…. And don’t you dare cum until I tell you to!

So while we were dating she went and got several large tattoos on her back shoulder and around her side.  She also started wearing two wide wedding bands on each ring finger.  Ears did not work out for her due to infections. 

As time went on we were married and she was wearing a bracelet made out of stainless steel, wide band rings.

I kept pushing for more tattoos and jewelry, and a 24/7 corset.

One day after 4 years of marriage it happened, she blew up and stated she could not wear what I wanted her to, and she actually had thoughts of leaving me.

After some discussions and long talks we agreed to more tattoos I was very adamant about that. And she wears some rings and one bracelet.  She was still mad at me because the tattoos were covering more of her body than she ever wanted.

She did notice that the tattoos and jewelry was a turn on still a huge to me, almost to the point of being able to control me.

We both looked into the swinging lifestyle, not for me but for her, to date other men. That was a turn on for me and NEW fantasies started to happen well we would go to parties and other couples would get together.  She asked why I did not play with other women and I stated that they did not do anything for me; most did not even wear a “wide wedding ring”. 

During this period my wife asked if I would have a vasectomy so I did.

After I had a lot of pain when I would orgasm.  It still hurts today but its becoming much less as time passes.  Right afterward I did not want to have sex; this whole thing was a little earth shattering for me. Not long after this my wife had to have a hysterectomy   due to bleeding and cysts.  Were now both sterile. 

After healing up my wife started dating single black guys only.  Married guys had too much baggage and could not direct there full attention toward her. 

So off to adult friend finder, she is listed as a single female looking for single males only.  

She still had some anger in her, directed toward me about so many tattoos and jewelry on her, that anger will probably always be there. Three years have passed since I had an orgasm with her.  Less painful when done by myself after the vasectomy, But I still masturbate about once per day.

I am now 48 and she is 45.  I told her the thought of being cuckold is a turn on.  So…….

I am not allowed to have intercourse with her, “our decision to see if it will be fun,” it’s been about 3 months now. She says she will give a hand job or massage the prostrate,” she has fun with that one,” but I am not to cum in her, or on her. 

She still wears jewelry and gets more tattoo work done once in a while.  Some day she said she will tattoo her arms which I would consider the ultimate in tattoo turn on.  I get rock hard with that one.

She is seeing several different black guys at this time.  Sometimes they are in the spare room having sex while I am home.  It’s a turn on and I will get my self off in several seconds hearing them.

We have discussed the fact, that it would be fun if I was denied the ability to cum at all.

She would place me in a black CB3000 and have the will power not to unlock me for any reason.  All she would need the will power to just say “NO” to my release request. 

I normally will try to f*** all I can about 2 or three months after she gets tattooed but I will not orgasm.  

Knowing and seeing her with new tattoos, and only her black lovers can have sex with her,  because I am locked up is very stimulating to me. She stated it would be a little poetic justice to get the tattooed woman that I wanted all my life and then not be able to Fu** her.

What do you thank ladies should I consider asking for it?