My wife, seems to have become my keyholder, in that she holds the Virtual Key to my Virtual Chastity Belt. She seems to be getting the idea that she has the power, and can deny me, and that I have to ask permission to cum. She never wanted anything to do with an "actual CB device." But the virtual type seems to be acceptable to her. 

For my part, although Mistress Samba's Virtual CB seemed like a bit of a joke when I started in October 2010, it seems to be workable, if you want to kind of work with it.....

Later on, I discovered Lee Allure who had a slightly different approach to Hypnotic Chastity, which I discovered somewhat more effective and quite a bit more restrictive in terms of my access. I've been switching between listening to them now. Samba's files are much more produced, and can be a fun change, while Lee Allure seems more personal when she speaks to you.

 You can see my complete Orgasm / Release History in my BLOG....

 You can also find my discussion of Hypnotic Chastity vs. The Honor System in Blog as well.

Cheers,

ShieldingMatrix