This morning my shrivelled dick was so tiny that it came out of the cage. When i woke up and went to the bathroom in the morning, the temptation was too much and in that moment of weakness, i started to wank myself. BUTTT i was caught before i could come by my Wife/Mistress. She went red with rage and i was so embarassed with myself. She said that this behaviour called for punishment and i nodded my head in total agreement.
As soon a i came home in the evening, She made me strip and go straight to the basement. First she tied my elbows toghether tightly, Next my wrists. She then taped my mouth shut tightand then blindfolded me with the same tape. i could hear Her go to the closet and then heard a plastic bag ruffle. She came back to me and put the plastic bag on my caged dick and balls , encasing the entire package, the plastic bag still ruffeling and manking noise. She then put rubber bands tightly around the base of my dick behind the ring of my cage . After a few moments, there was a sudden stinging pain. Now i understtod what the Plastic bag contained. There were red stinging ants inthe bag. She then tied my knees together and then my ankles. and left me on the ground screaming silent screams through my gagged mouth. She had spent the afternoon gathering the ants . i spent the entire night in pain. i dont recall when but somewhere in the night i lost the control and pissed in the plastic bag. after that the stinging stopped as the bag was filled with my piss and the ants had died.
In the morning, i was released from the bonds and asked to clean myself. my Misterss was angry that i had pissed and said that the punishment was not coplete and that i am going to suffer again tonight and warned not to piss in the bag.

Please tell us how the next night went!

I have had to endure a similar punishment in the past.. Fireants can leave nasty welts and once one stings, they attack with a fierce agression that can leave your balls and penis swollen for days. My owner only had 10, and he said with every infraction, the next time would increase by that many ants.. believe me.. I tried my best to avoid that punishment!

toppcatt36 wrote:
She came back to me and put the plastic bag on my caged dick and balls , encasing the entire package, the plastic bag still ruffeling and manking noise. She then put rubber bands tightly around the base of my dick behind the ring of my cage . After a few moments, there was a sudden stinging pain. Now i understtod what the Plastic bag contained. There were red stinging ants inthe bag. She then tied my knees together and then my ankles. and left me on the ground screaming silent screams through my gagged mouth. She had spent the afternoon gathering the ants . i spent the entire night in pain.

i'm glad you took the experience as punishment, i'm afraid i would have taken it as abuse. Punishment hurts, but to what level?

love, lara

When i cleaned myself in the morning i found only 4 ants in the plastic bag. Yet the whole exprience was terrifying. Sure enough, my Wife/Mistress was in a really foul mood. Anyway i am keeping a really low profile around Her and trying hard to avoid making her angry. No sequel to my punishment has come till now.

I have to agree with lara, it seems more abuse than punishment. This may work for you but a safe word that would stop the punishment,at least until it could be discussed, seems reasonable. Just my opinion.

Sure enough there should be a safe word, but in this case i was totally helpless as i was first tied, gaged and blindfolded. only recourse for me was to endure the suffering. Plus there was a BIG GUILT FACTOR which was weighing heavily on my conscious. I actually felt relieved that i was punished. It would have been more terrible for me if nothing was done by my Mistress in response to my stupidity. Our relationship has always been one based on TRUST and UNDERSTANDING and LOVE. In the past, there has never been an incident where serious or permanent harm/damage was ever done to me by my Mistress/KH. U may be right that what was done to me was abuse, but i knew that no permanent harm would come my way.
Moreover i feel that even my Mistress knows that She may have reacted in a very harsh manner to my infraction. She has been very caring ever since the morning she came and released me. I dont think She has any plans to extend my punishment beyond what has already been done.

Seems to me, if you trust your Mistress/KH then what she does to you will not be abuse. If you accept her authority, and her right to punish you as she sees fit, which in my opinion are two of the basic premises of being a slave, then you have nothing to complain about (I do respect the fact that you are not complaining, it is the others here that are doing it on your behalf!).

I think you are lucky. It has always been my misfortune that whenever I have been punished or disciplined for anything, it has never really gone far enough, and I feel at the end of it that I have not really been made to pay for my misbehavior. That leaves a very empty feeling - and I am not talking about situations where I have deliberately done something to get myself punished, which is perhaps the worst thing a slave can do.

I think you're extremely lucky. The only "punishment" I used to get from my ex-wife was the silent treatment. Though that was often more of a blessing really...

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toppcatt36 wrote:
[quote]Sure enough there should be a safe word, but in this case i was totally helpless as i was first tied, gaged and blindfolded. only recourse for me was to endure the suffering.[quote]

Dear, it seems to me there was not a safe word then. love, lara

chasteboi99 wrote:
Seems to me, if you trust your Mistress/KH then what she does to you will not be abuse. If you accept her authority, and her right to punish you as she sees fit, which in my opinion are two of the basic premises of being a slave, then you have nothing to complain about.

It's not always easy to distinguish between punishment and abuse.

To me, abuse is something which is likely to result in emotional, mental or physical damage.

If you reread the original post, you may see why i thought it might be abuse.

love, lara

Thats funny . I can relate

Dear Lara, harming one, giving pain without any reason is abuse. Even a child is punished sometimes, be it not being allowed to do something or even spaked by the parent in when he or she does something wrong. Thses actions are taken to teach the child that he/she is not supposed to do or to do something. The same actions become abuse when there was no reason to punish, yet the victim has to undergo it. Moreover there was no damage at all. There are so many posts which speak about a person being locked, being spanked and even whipped. All these men actually enjoy these deeds, which, sometimes, are even forced upon them. However it sure is good to know that someone is concerned about the issue.

Regards Toppcatt