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TOPIC: One year in chastity
#37654
One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 17  
Hello all

Happy 4th.

I have been locked in a full steel chastity belt for just about one year now.

Concepts She has been experimenting with lately;

First there must be discipline and not play,

Second the individual must be humiliated to suppress the male ego

Third is the chastity for real not playing

Step four is deprivation

Now the final step is to rebuild that person into what the Mistress specifically wants.

Result = I am not who I used to be.

rs
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: -1  
Congratulations, keep your head up high and you cock tucked down low. If you're still here is because both your head and genitals are screwed down tight . How about some highlights of the year? Good/bad things, lessons learned, maybe some actual pics?
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#37657
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
Oh I like those principles (concepts). I really do.
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#37658
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
Greetings all. Long time member of CnC, and a recent member here at ChastityLifestyle.

my Domme (M) and i have been practicing 24/7 chastity and orgasm denial since April. Tomorrow is my birthday, and taking a cue from some other websites, including the Male Chastity Blog (very classy site), i will be kept in 24/7 chastity, and complete orgasm denial, for a full year...365 days...beginning July 2nd.

Tomorrow, i will have the opportunity to be released from chastity, and to experience the pleasure of a real orgasm with M. After that, my year of denial begins.

There will be no exceptions.

Chastity is via a JailBird from MatureMetal, with a CB6000S for when i need to travel (air). It has been, and will remain, 24/7.

my only method of release will be via milking, which will take place every couple of weeks. i will be secured in the Stockade (Extreme Restraints), and milked, after which i will be required to swallow my fluid.

M will be taking a lover to provide Her with the sexual satisfaction that i am not allowed to give Her, or receive from Her. i will be required to clean Her after each time She takes a lover to bed.

It should be an interesting year. i will keep the board updated as the year progresses.

R/
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#37659
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
Yes congradulations that is fantastic. Really identify with you are not who you used to be. The losing of your male ego by humilation does work on many levels.
enjoying the changing too
Sincerely mypet
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#37660
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 3  
Wow, Sam401, best of luck! In some ways I am jealous. In others I would be intimidated by the foreknowledge of other lovers being involved. I have toyed with the idea in my mind and think I could handle it if I were allowed to service them during/after. I think being left out would be much harder. But it is still a lot to wrap the mind around.

We have teased about her being able to have sex with whomever she desires. But to my knowledge she has remained completely faithful.

Best of luck!
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#37662
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
M has a fairly high sex drive. With me being in orgasm denial, it was necessary to find a way to keep Her sexually satisfied.....

Tongue and toys can only do so much. In order for me to be kept in denial for a full year, the decision that She would take a lover was a completely logical move. i am the one in denial, not Her.

And it affords Her the opportunity to further my humiliation by (a) forcing me to clean Her any time She takes a lover to Her bed, and (b) chaining me in the bitch closet, and making me to listen to Her fuck Her playmate, by way of an installed baby monitor.

When you add it all up...the 24/7 chastity, permanent denial, and the humiliation of listening to Her with Her playmate, and then cleaning Her afterwards...it should make for a very interesting year.

And that's not even taking into account the whipping, caning, humiliation, and ball-kicking that we already enjoy.....

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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 2  
hello rs. I really appreciate your posts as they are truly instructive for me and help me frame potential realities
of this lifestyle. my question is: was or is your MISTRESSES vision for who you are becoming to be made known to you by HER or is it something that is unfolding as a mystery? and is feminization part of the process or the desired result?
thanks for your sharing
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 2  
i couldn't imagine doing this for a year
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 17  
sissyjazmine - Neither could I....but when you dont have the key, you cant take it off, and you are whipped severly and denied for even longer just for complaining, you get used to it.

mypet - I know YOU understand

sam401 - The cuck thing is a deal breaker for us. I will stay with her for life as long as we are monogomous. She will stay with me for life as long as she can keep me as a slave in 24/7/365 chastity. For some its a fantasy but not for us.

aromero3 - This road she has put me on has been more challenging than anything I have ever done but I am getting used to it.
Good things - The love she shows me and the constant play and milkings I get. We live the good life and are in love.
Bad things. - Mourning the loss of my penis, A whipping I got once for really screwing up, the boredom, humiliation and frustration I feel when I am kept locked in rubber and restraints all day at home while Mistress goes out with her friends.

rs
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
rubber_slave wrote:
sissyjazmine - Neither could I....but when you dont have the key, you cant take it off, and you are whipped severly and denied for even longer just for complaining, you get used to it.

mypet - I know YOU understand

sam401 - The cuck thing is a deal breaker for us. I will stay with her for life as long as we are monogomous. She will stay with me for life as long as she can keep me as a slave in 24/7/365 chastity. For some its a fantasy but not for us.

aromero3 - This road she has put me on has been more challenging than anything I have ever done but I am getting used to it.
Good things - The love she shows me and the constant play and milkings I get. We live the good life and are in love.
Bad things. - Mourning the loss of my penis, A whipping I got once for really screwing up, the boredom, humiliation and frustration I feel when I am kept locked in rubber and restraints all day at home while Mistress goes out with her friends.

rs


To each their own. With me being in orgasm denial, we...WE...decided that She would take a lover to give Her what is forbidden to me. i have no problem with it, especially given the fact that i will be required to clean Her afterwards. What more could a locked sub ask for?

Your situation works for you, and mine works for me. It's not about who's right, or wrong...it's about both of us enjoying what we have, right?

r/
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#37673
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: -1  
Looks like she gives you plenty of attention in her own style. Even if she leaves you hanging while she has girls night out, I would relish being able to escape into subspace, I mean she did take the time to strap you up. I have yet to experience subspace in this form. If this is your reality and you are committed, then look forward to your wedding! Maybe have a funeral for your former man thing, it's not a part of your relationship and never will be. Man up, or lock up! Cheers to another kinky year! And remember she wears the penis not you.

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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 0  
rs, let me apologize for "piggybacking" on your thread. i was planning to start a thread regarding my "Year of Denial", but your thread was already here, and i didn't see any sense in starting a second, almost identical thread.

It was not my intent to take away from your post. The fact is that my level of submission, and the D/s relationship i am in, pales in comparison to the level of submission and dominance that you are living.

Anyhow, i apologize if i offended, and thanks for your opinion on the journey ahead.

r/
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 2  
rs,

the whipping sounds harsh. what other severe punishments for wanting/trying to get out or accidentally orgasming while let out?

sj
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 17  
sam - Never been a fan of having my threads hijacked but no offense taken. Also , yes, it is about both of us enjoying what we have. If you have found what you want then you are luckier than most. I usually post a little and then people read my profile and then I get MSGs with all manner of erotic questions which I always answer. I love answering questions and writing about my life as a slave as it is a good outlet to share with others what I obviously cannot share in life with vanillas. Thankfully we are active in the BDSM community and most of my friends are kinky and know exactly what my life is like so I really do live it 24/7.

sissyjazmine - . Thats just the point. I want out very badly sometimes but cannot get out no matter what so I stopped trying. The belt has defeated me. I am not let out nor am I likely to be again. I have been locked up in this belt for about a year now and it has not come off even once. Mistress has techniques developed through experimentation that allow her to milk me. This ensures I am entirely dependent on her for pleasure and it is given very sparingly. This also ensures her complete control over me at all times which is exactly how she wants it. My body is hers to do with what she will and my brain goes along for the ride.

the whippings can be very harsh. Her favorite saying is " I can do anything to you whenever I want and there is nothing you can do about it, can you slave? "


aromero3 - Mistress does have her own style but it was developed through intense study of 24/7 D/s and BDSM from the writings of some of the best Fem-Dommes in the world and she has also trained with skilled female Dommes (some of them Pro) and continues to do so several times monthly. This is often accompanied by her dressing me in rubber and then locking me in steel cuffs and chains while she spends a relaxing evening with various Dominants learning how better to train me and things to do to me. Invariably she is full of surprises from techniques she learns but she always keeps them a secret until she implements them in her never ending training program I am under going.
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: -1  
Wow, she is doing a fantastic job then. It looks like there is a strong dynamism in what she does and seems to be proactive in it. There probably is little repetition in your sessions.

Some fun questions of curiousity:
Do you enjoy the unique milkings more or getting it thoroughly with a strap-on? And what do you get more of? I personally would take the strap-on more.

I'm sure I could be compelled to love it more than taking my girlfriend. But I'll settle for getting it as a once in a while reward for good oral and penetration.
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: 17  
aromero3 - The milkings are much more pleasurable than when she fucks me with a strap on for sure. When she does it, she is as gentle as she can be putting it in but once I am comfortable she fucks me hard and fast and she usually whips my ass and thighs with a cane and/or a crop so it is not very much fun for me. Being milked is much better.

I would say she fucks me more than she milks me.
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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years, 1 Month ago Karma: -1  
Very cool, I love getting spanked medium lightly, just the right amount of force and speed and I can convert it to pleasure, maybe you need the right frequency and amplitude. I can get compelled to release in this way, since it rarely happens through normal sex. However, when she wants me to release, then I ride her strap-on and have her spank me lightly, it almost certainly does the trick.

How about you? Do you have your female-style release every time through either of your methods used? And maybe we can see some pics of you or both some day?
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#37706
Re:One year in chastity 3 Years ago Karma: 1  
rubber_slave wrote:
Now the final step is to rebuild that person into what the Mistress specifically wants.

Congratulations, rubber slave dear, on how far you have come!
(or not come, if you take the other meaning)

Do you have any idea who Mistress intends you to be?

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Re:One year in chastity 3 Years ago Karma: 17  
Armando - It is nice that you can cum from a strap on. I wish I could but it is not Mistresses inention to give me a release when she does this. It is to demonstrate her authority and power over me by violating me so intimately and making it pretty uncomfortable while she does it.

My releases are from nipple stimulation and vibrating the tube my penis is locked into behind the shield on my belt.
Nothing really comes out except some clear fluid and an hour later I am just as horny as before. These "releases" are reffered to by her as milkings and the sensation I would describe as simuilar to having a more feminine orgasm as it is mostly internal, goes through my whole body, and my penis is still mostly flaccid as the belt does not allow any room for an erection whatsoever.

Pics ? No. I do not think I will ever post here any pics of myself or Mistress but if you live in my area and are active in the BDSM community then you know what we look like. I am a fairly handsome and well built guy and she is a blonde haired blue eyed swedish beauty who loves 5 inch heels.

rs
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