Boyfriend has this device, Lancelot chainmail ball trap device:
www.madame-dura.de/product_info.php?info...chastity-device.html
Very well made, beautiful, high quality device. But we were disappointed to discover that when soft, he can still pull out the back of the device (a common problem with ball trap devices). The measurements fit perfectly. The balls remain trapped. And because the base ring is hinged, that's also sized as small as will fit.
Now we're trying to figure out a solution to inescapable chastity under my control as keyholder without requiring any self-control on his part.
Neither of us want him to get pierced.
We had looked at full belts, like neosteel, before settling on the lancelot. Maybe we're different than some of the chastity enthusiasts here, but we wanted the chastity to only limit orgasm not erections. All the full belts are solid steel pointing downward, which over time begin to inhibit the erections and could possibly damage erectile tissue by forcing the penis constantly downward. We don't want his body to "adjust", we want him to continue having as frequent and as strong of erections, building up the sexual frustration until I allow him release.
The chainmail seemed like the perfect solution: flexible to point up while erect, but also point down the rest of the time including being able to use the bathroom. And it does seem to work exactly as intended except for pulling out.
Is there a way of getting a full belt, like neosteel, but incorporate the chainmail penis tube we have instead of the solid tube?
I also considered getting a separate chainmail belt sized exactly right to attach to the hinged base ring, thus locking on with the device locked.
Possibly some kind of insert to prevent pulling out. Has anyone tried this?:
www.lockeduplove.net/page/accessories
scroll down to the Security insert for CB-6000 models: "The outward angle of the pins causes them to close in as you try to pull out, similar to a chinese finger trap."
Thanks for any advice or suggestions.