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#33907
Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
I'm just curious in getting some feedback. We are in a very new situation with a Dominate Straight Male and sub straight female and male. The Dom and I are interested in orgasm denial of the sub male. We have already started this with making the sub watch us cum together but not letting him join. Would like any feedback on these relationships where there are two straight males and 1 female and the dynamics that we can expect. There does not seem to be a lot of examples that I can find. We are very interested in introducing a chastity device for the sub.
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#33911
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 4  
Granted I am tired but, this does sound to me like a cuckold style relationship. Not sure of the relationship parameters between the three of you.. Is anyone in this grouping married? Try researching cuckold relationships, even without the sub male being married the dynamic of a dominant male/female coupling while the submissive male is not allowed to join in, seems to apply here.
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#33913
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 3  
Agree, this is nearly cuckold defined. The level of sub involvement varies widely, but fluffing and clean-up duties would at least keep him interested and make it exciting for all. Sitting in the corner or another room may make him lose interest altogether. Thoughts?
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#33973
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
You should both begin feminizing and sissifying your sub male. Because he is straight he won't want to do it. That makes the forcing of it upon one more humiliation he has to endur on his journey to be a she. You can make him wear panties over his chastized cock. I suggest enforcing this on a 24/7 basis and then slowly add to his wardrobe. Once he's fully a sissy you can begin training him to clean your creampies and fluff your dominate male. The dom should be good with it as he will no longer view the sub as a male but as a sissy.
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#33982
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
This is precisely the relationship I had with my wife and her live-in boyfriend. He was straight and dom and I was pretty much denied. A little jealousy at times, but I never really felt left out. We did lots of things together, just not sex. They both walked around naked a lot and he would let me see him feel her up or play with her under a blanket while we watched a movie at night, but come bed time they went to their room. They did leave the door open always so I could listen and both of them knew that I would listen and masturbate. They would also fuck in my bed when I left for work in the morning and leave me a wet spot to sleep in for my after-lunch nap. He moved on after about six months but there was discussion of caging me in the CB-3000 that we have and for him to keep the key so that I would have to ask him to masturbate or at least ask her to get it from him so that he would know and be in control. All in all it worked fine and we all liked the relationship.
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#33984
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 7  
Hi, footboy. Nice first post --- welcome to the CL forum. I'm sure we'd love to hear more about your experience.
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#33985
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
Hello All, Goodgirl i wish i could share some experience or wisdom on Your situation. i am submissive, but transgendered and see the world more like Kitty does i think. My bias opinion is the same, naturally.

(Kitty, i ADORED your Profile, could we be long distance gurl-friends?)

If i could be permitted, Sir Chirenon's right, it would be very exciting to hear more about how exciting it was
sleeping on the 'wet-spot'. Sleeping? That would be a challenge.

Goodgirl, how i envy Your beautiful dominance, welcum here indeed. As footboy wrote, being forced to ask Master for the Key would be deliciously humiliating. Having to follow-through with both of Your present ... Priceless.

~sissy sarah~
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#34008
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
Thanks, I think the important thing you said is that there are all kinds of levels so its hard to define. I don't think we are a cuckhold in the true definition, but I like that we can come up with our own definition. For us its more like a three way where we do enjoy all the fun erotic sex three people can have..... the dom gets to decide what the sub gets to do though and lots of deniel and making him lick my juices off his dick to humiliate him, ect. A lot of cum control and denial and hopefully the use of chastity soon where the male dom is the key holder.

I just wanted to know if this situation is common at all or if there are others that are in this arena?
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Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 7  
goodgirl1,

I think the difference here between your relationship and a traditional cuckold relationship, is that the traditional cuckold relationship, begins m/f, where the small m and the small f are the sub-husband and sub-wife, already together, to which M (the dom cuckold boyfriend) is added. The end equation: M/f/m (or M/m/f) is the same as in your relationship, but you've gotten there a different way.

If I'm reading you right, you're starting out M/f and adding m. That's a little more unusual a path, because when you're in a situation with heterosexual M already in control, there's less immediate incentive for him to add an m to the equation. He might just as easily add more f's, creating M/f/f/f or a Master / harem girl situation. This is similar to my equation which is M/m/m, where I as the Master am free to add any number of harem boys to the equation.

However, there is no particular reason why an M/f couple can't create the M/f/m equation that is also the effect of the traditional cuckold relationship. I think the reason why so many of the boys on this sites (the m's if you will) often pick "bi-curious" as their orientation is that when you are focused on the the DOM/sub aspect of the relationship, power/authority/control become more attractive than gender.

In other words, even though many of the m's on this site are oriented toward women in simple attraction equation, they are still intensely excited by the idea of a cuckold M dominating their m/f relationship. There are otherwise "straight" boys on this site who are getting fucked by Dominant Men --- and loving it --- because the major force of attraction here is not traditional gender, it's the Dom/'sub authority factor.

In quite the same way, it's very possible for your own M (your Dom bf) to be attracted to the Dom/sub authority factor to the extent that this trumps gender for him and causes him to want to add a sub m to your equation. He'll get a similar (but also different) feeling Himself from having a boy to dominate alongside his girl.

Hope that makes sense. Good luck! I don't see anything unusual here. Even though you're coming at this from a different origin, the end equation is approximately the same. The only difference is that there is less extreme role-reversal because the "m" boy never began life as a the supposed master of the house.
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#34011
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 0  
Thank you!!!! Thats is exactly the description we were looking for!! Thats helps a lot. Sort of justifies our situation as legit. We just were trying to understand the dynamic. I think understanding the part about transcending the boundaries of gender is the par that we needed to understand and you helped with that.
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#34012
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 4 Years ago Karma: 7  
You're quite welcome, I'm glad that helps and makes sense.

Yes, I think it's quite right to say that the power relationship and power attraction transcends gender attraction. So, if the M in your relationship decided to dominate the m by occasionally fucking him, the key here is the act is an expression of the M's dominance and the m's submission. The important component is the CAPITAL LETTER vs. lower case letter, not which particular letter is involved.

So, for example, I'm 100% orientated towards males (i.e., gay), but you'll see I make all kinds of photocaption stories that involve women, as you can see in this folder: www.chastitylifestyle.com/chastity/index...mbnails&album=18

I haven't made these stories because I'm intrinsically physically attracted to women; I've made them because I'm attracted to the power situation and the erotic circumstances surrounding ideas like Dom/sub, role-reversal, cuckolding, male chastity, etc.

(I haven't made any stories relating specifically to your circumstances, but I have done many cuckolding stories that you may find of some interest.)
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Re:Male doms with sub male and female 3 Years, 12 Months ago Karma: 3  
Your ability to capture the psyche so succintly is a gift, and is spot-on from everything I've read.

I'm curious if your profession is in the psychology field.
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#34028
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 3 Years, 12 Months ago Karma: 3  
Sorry, this last reply was meant for Chirenon.
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Re:Male doms with sub male and female 3 Years, 12 Months ago Karma: 7  
Thanks, milamber. No, my background is not psychology. My background is social science and I'm very interested in personal interaction --- human politics. I try to be an empathetic observer of human interaction who is open to different alternatives.
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#34037
Re:Male doms with sub male and female 3 Years, 12 Months ago Karma: 5  
Chirenon,

i have to concur. Excellent explanation especially the part pertaining to how the M/F/m or M/f/m relation trancends the gender line because to me it's more about the submission whether it be a male or female i am servicing. i am there to provide a service only and that service is pleasuring someone else sexually however THEY desire even though i am not in any sort of cuckold situation now. When i do get to perform oral on a male at Mistress' command In the end it is the submission that drives me.

MM's sweetpea
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