I'd like to know how you prefer to be relieved by your Keyhoder/Dom.

Mistress N

I don't get a say in it but probably get about 5 ruined to each prostate.......i thing the ruined are more fun for her than the prostate and as it's all about her anyway............

My choice is in first an orgasm but as my Mistress wants and second choice is a nice milking with a "handmassage" of my prostate by my dear Mistress.I like to have her rubber gloved hand in my sissy-pussy <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_razz.gif" border="0" alt="Razz" title="Razz" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_razz.gif" border="0" alt="Razz" title="Razz" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_razz.gif" border="0" alt="Razz" title="Razz" />
When I'm a bad sissy it's "nothing" !!!

I'm Mistress N's husband and I prefer the prostate massage but it's always her desicion. I know my Mistress prefers ruined orgasms to prostate massages because she thinks milking is too much hard work. I noticed that in her post yesterday allthough I knew that allready.
I'm almost never allowed to experience real full blown orgasms anymore.
My orgasm is her most precious gift to give. The last couple of years she has granted me maybe 4 orgasms a year. The last one I had was in on Valentine's Day after I gave her an all inclusive dream holliday a Cape Verde as a present.

rohosub

I have practised Chastity Control on my sissy sub for two years. There nothing funnier than ruining his orgasm after hes waited two months for it. I basically restrain him so he cant move, then masturbatedhim. At the moment he cums, I squeeze the base of his cock HARD between my thumb and finger. This complete ruins the orgasm, stopping the muscle contractions, and leaving and the semen to dribble out. This I follow with a stiff whipping, and the cock restraint is placed straight back on. This is usually enough to produce some very pleasing tears of pain and frustration, and of course, total obedience for two more months.

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A ruined orgasm is like a fantastic movie with a disappointing ending. You enjoyed 90% of it anyway, the ending just sucked.

A prostate massage, in my experience, can be a slog from start to finish. 20 minutes of feeling like I want to masturbate and pee at the same time, and no climax whatsoever.

So I’d choose a ruined orgasm for the pleasure stakes (after all, 90% of it was enjoyable) or a prostate massage if you want to cut off the pleasure entirely.

it helps if your wife is enthusiastically committed to the idea that your sperm is indeed worthless and also that it does not belong inside of her or any woman ,the more you can both acknowledge and verbalize this fact outside of the bedroom the greater the results will be.

The ritual suggests 1. to deny you penetration, 2. have you masturbate, under her supervision, into the toilet, 3. ask her to pee on your worthless sperm and 4. she flushes the toilet expressing joy that your sperm is on the way to the sewer where it belongs. She should add dialogue and facial expression to each part of the ritual to reinforce the premise and build to the future.


another perfect way for you to dispose of your worthless cum... you make a cumsicle out of it, and then you can suck on your pop while your wife fucks her bull, or if she has no bull, you can suck on it for punishment purposes. Its a perfect way to dispose of your worthless cum, it is completely degrading, and it also trains you to think of eating cum as a treat.

I'm thinking that the ruined may better 'exercise' the prostate. It is a muscle. the skin on the penis needs regular stretching too, or it looses elasticity.

How about something like this: The male is restrained, unlocked, and played with, or Exercised. But he is never to know if it will be a tease, a ruined or a real. Until ......

Hmmm. A gag may be needed too.


FN

i really love it when Mistress unlocks and removes the chastity (except for the CB3K ring) and then 'works' on me for a while... having me stand at attention while touching me, rubbing my little clitty with a stiff brush, pinching my nipples, and having me curtsey and speaking politely. Mistress loves the little moans and whimpers, and i love taking Her direction not to move a muscle especially during really intense stimulation. it even gets me more excited when She decides that it's time for Her (or Her Sister's or other Lady's) used panties are brought out. Panties are my favorite play thing! when Mistress calculates i've had enough of Panties then i'm bent over a stool for a good milking!

of course, immediately afterwards i'm curtseying and thanking Her, and looking at the CB3K beinh lcoked-on again. and getting Mistress something on the serving tray...

well, as errection means punishment it is 90% ruined orgasm.
i know the idea of milking gets stronger and stronger.
i have not been milked off yet but it might be the release of the future.
still i am allowed to fuck sometimes but this moments are getting less and less....

If Mistress allows, orgasm please. Much prefer milking to ruined but not my choice so whatever.

Mistress don't use milking on me, she permit 3/4 orgasms a year, some of this are ruined.
I prefer to remain chaste than the ruined ones.

I'd like to know how you prefer to be relieved by your Keyhoder/Dom.

Mistress N


How do I prefer to be relieved? Properly of course!!! <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" border="0" alt="Twisted Evil" title="Twisted Evil" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />

Now if you had asked how She would prefer me to be relieved . . . . . . . . . . .

In considering thsi question, all i can think of in my head is that HER orgasms and HER pleasure are so many hundreds of times more important than mine, that my own release can only be of consequense in the context of how it would encourage me to better support Her needs.

i am Hers to take advantage of.
She may simply ignor my orgams as long as She pleases, humiliating me by treating my orgasm as nothing to be bothered with.

She may occasionaly take me out and have me cum over and over and over until it is painfull and i am milked dry -just to wake up all of my feelings- only to cage me up again, so the pent-up will be renewed.

She may tease me, offering orgasm and at the last minute retracting it, instead occuping me with a more important task such as standing at her side holding a tray wiht a napkin on it -in case She should have need for one. CRUSHING any notions that my orgasm matters at all.

But OH to look into Her smilng eyes when She RUINS my orgasm with Her mere fingertips... oh how divine to feel my place so intensely! :_)

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Both milking and ruined orgasm have their redeeming points.

I've done both to myself, and can say that I'll do them both again.

For me, milking seems more of an "exercise" than a release or a reward. It serves a purpose.

I happen to be a huge fan of ruined orgasm. LOVE IT! First, the male gets all the usual pleasures received from the act of masturbation...the sensations felt by the glans & so forth. Also, the feelings felt in the moment leading up to orgasm are quite enjoyable, and imho...are suitable as enough pleasure to qualify as a reward all on their own.

And then we get to the really good part: discharge of semen without the wonderful wave of orgasm. So close, but no Orgasm. I find that to be devilishly heavenly.

During the ejaculation of a Ruined Orgasm, there are still some pleasurable sensations, which are different than a male's normal orgasm. They're nice, but they aren't as good as a full-blown O could've been. That leaves us with the frustration of having wasted an orgasm, which I find to be a nice mind-F'ing experience...especially true after being released from chastity...more true if going immediately back into chastity.

But ruined O's are also wonderful if used during prolonged tease & denial, outside of the "chastity" umbrella.

And I say all these wonderful things about ruined orgasms as someone who intentionally does them to himself. I have neither keyholder nor Mistress; I'm just a kinky guy, that ruins his own orgasms fairly regurlarly...because I get off on screwing with my own mind.

There could be a better high than unlocking your own chastity belt and giving yourself a ruined orgasm...but if there is, I haven't found it yet.

i prefer the ruined orgasms just because it's so much more frustrating to be hard and teased yet not receive the sexual relief.

i think the comments here are useful - keeping the male clitty in shape is desireable and ruining is wonderful - better than orgasm to this malecreature. i have had it done as a multiple non orgasm for about 2 hours. it made me extremely sore for about a week afterwards. Mistress had two subs pulling, and as i approached the critical point She would take over. The cycle would then begin again. Talk about a mindfuck!! i loved it, and it produced a dribble every 10 or 15 minutes, then a cooling off of 5 minutes, then more......

For me it would be the ruined orgasm...they so bad that they are so good... <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />


chastyman

For me this christmas it will be about 60 days of lock up and I know my queen intends ruined orgasms again. Last time in october it was just 1 but I think she wants to do serveral over the course of christmas day.
They are terrible as you've waited sooo long for relief that you just don't get, it must be about 6 months since I had that 'pumping' feeling from a normal orgasm.
Normaly Queeny just uses the feeldoe on me between cum dates and doesn't milk me, she says the fucking stimulates the prostate enough and if something wants to cum out, it will during these sessions.

Ruined please Mistress - the "worst" ruined orgasms are after taking viagra - multiples are sensational, then ice and back in the cage. Leaves me high, bursting (and sore) for days...........