Much to my surprise, it's been exceedingly difficult (nearly impossible) finding someone interested in cuckolding me. One would think that there would be multitudes of women who would jump at the opportunity to have one man be devoted to and worshipful of them, and at the same time know that they have the ultimate freedom of exploring their sexual options without limit. I'm starting to wonder if "persuing" a cuckoldress in my mistake. Perhaps I should be making "conventional" overtures and then introducing the subject of cuckolding later.. Yes, I may have to change my strategy..
I'm very much excited about meeting someone who shares my interests. And I look forward to being chaste for inordinate lengths of time! Please! Someone! I need and want to serve!
It has been a while sence i has to wear a chastity device it real cold temps.(Well for me anyway).
It started good when it was installed on me Monday, Then the weather changed and it got real cold and windy. And that caused the ball and penis to want to srink and draw back up. But , the device i have SCC Birdcage would not let them.
So as you can guess the base ring started to dig in and it all got tight.
well my new rules for my husbands chastity life is having great results.my husband has a potential release date once a month>on that day he gets to roll a set of dice to see what his outcome is.if he rolls a 2,he gets tongue duty on my pussy and ass and remains locked for another month.if he rolls a 3,4,5or 6 he remains locked up and gets to try again in a week.if he rolls a 7 he gets to get unlocked but only orgasms how i want .sometimes he gets to whack off while i make fun of him or put a time limit on how much time he can beat off.sometimes on me sometimes on him in different places.sometimes i just tell him to do it and not let me see or know about it.if he rolls an 8 ,he gets to come inside me but has to perform clean up duty with his tongue when he is done.this is good because after a month he has a lot to clean up and it puts him back into his submissive mode.i also like the fact that i do not have to run to the bathroom to clean up.if he rolls a 9,10,or 11 he gets to get unlocked for the night ,but no orgasm and than get locked up for another month.this is good because i love teasing him and than he is even more attenative to my needs and even more submissive and that makes him a much better slave.if he rolls a 12 he gets to release inside me with no clean up duty but he has never gotten that,hahaha!his rules for release are as follows:i day added for any requests not followed properly or fast enough.another day on top of that for any lip that follows.1 week added for any disrepect or hesitation of any request given in front of company,and any word other than yes dear results in another week.this is great because he is on his best behavior in front of my friends and they are amazed about what a great husband i have.any argument that happens after being warned that the disagreement is over and it is my way will result in a 2 week extension.we no longer have arguments!!!!any delay in getting locked back up after orgasm reults in 2 added weeks for next time.any complaints about outcome of dice results in an extra week of lockdown.he gets 2 free orgasms on his birthday and christmas.i get as many orgasms as i want using his tongue,i have an extension penis that locks onto his cb3000 so he can fuck me like a man without getting any pleasure to his locked penis.i have strap on chin dildos that are great because he gets to watch and smell me fucking this penis that is strapped to his chin.he gets so excited and becomes an even better slave..we have under the bed restaints that i love using when he has clean up duty because as soon as he comes,i pinch my lips together and smother his face until he is completely finished cleaning me.i climb off and his face is covered in come while he is tied spread eagled.makes for great pictures and a very obedient slave.i cannot imagine living the way we used to before chastity.i have a personalised license plate that says keyhldr and love it when people pull up next to us and give me a thumbs up or points at my husband and laughs!!!!thats all for now,i will post next release date for him
Hello, I'm new here and what brings me here is my desire to explore, challenge and understand my sexual energy and the value of sexual energy for humanity. I enjoy all sexual activity including sunsets, seeing random acts of love and kindness committed and or course, actual sexual fun.
I am very interested in the tantric principals but have had a hard time putting them into practice. Part of it is because I enjoy orgasm so much. Part of it is because orgasm seems to give me benefits such as curing headaches, helping me concentrate, and helping me sleep. I recently discovered the very healing and pain relieving aspects of prolonged sexual tension without orgasm. Orgasm brought the pain back and I had to get worked up again to get relief. I also got a nice sense of well being during this time. It was during my menstral period which makes orgasms harder to work for and in general lowers my need to come. I find I am able to enjoy more sexual tension during this time than others because my body is more cooperative with it. Instead of that cozy well-being feeling, sexual tension usually makes me cranky and irritable.
I recently have been getting letters from WOMEN asking me about their level of satisfaction and what they should do about it. I thought maybe I’d start to feature this in my blog . Imagine that, Dear Abby becomes Dear Frankie. We’ll start with our first letter from Jane. This is an embarassing question, but I could use your expertise. My husband is concerned he isn`t large enough. His penis is 5 in. long and about 1.5 in. wide when he is erect. It is true I have a difficult time having an orgasm during regular sex but I have very strong orgasms from oral or manual stimulation. Some of my friends feel “size” has made a difference in thier experiences. My only sexual experience has been with my husband so I don`t know what to think. He is thinking about going to plastic surgeon to have a penis enlargement. He read about it in a medical magazine. Do you think this will make a difference? Is 5in. normal size or is it small? How much bigger can the surgeon make his penis? Is it worth surgery? Sometimes I am frustrated after sex. It isn`t a problem of forplay, we take our time and I`m ready when we begin intercourse, but I just can`t reach an orgasm. Would a larger penis make a difference?
Thank you Jane, In taking a look at the problem systematically, this is my research and what I have found. The average size of a man`s penis is generally between seven and eight inches in length; the average girth is around 1.5-2.5 inches. Penile enhancement surgery is a very controversial issue. It has not been scientifically shown that such surgeries improve men`s sexual function or self esteem. Pills would be safer to if nothing else enhance his erection At best this surgery can increase the width of the penis by 1/2 inch, but does little for length. However, these surgically improved penises tend to have an unusual appearance post surgery which cause many men great distress and disappointment. And more importantly, your disappointment. How disheartening to go through all that work and find out that it wasn’t going to give you what you wanted. Most women report that different size penises do feel differently. But, the majority also report they do not achieve orgasm with intercourse (penile thrusting alone). Stimulation of the clitoris (introitus), which after all is some distance from the vaginal opening, is required to produce orgasm.
Most women are like you; they can easily achieve orgasm with manual or oral stimulation, but less frequently achieve orgasm with intercourse. Many of these women require clitoral stimulation during intercourse to achieve orgasm. This is because the angle of insertion does not produce sufficient pressure and stimulation to the clitoral tissues to induce orgasm. Unless you have a lover who is very good at what he does. A larger penis is more likelyto provide more clitoral stimulation than a smaller penis.
I am a happy little sissy this morning! Last night Princess started my training properly, YAY!
I dressed up in some sexy lingerie (stockings and basque) while she worked on cam, and I was her maid getting her drinks and cigarettes when she needed them. After she had finished work she made me get my underbust corset out and to put it on over my lingerie, she tied it nice and tight, making my waist shrink down and be hour-glass shaped. :-) She then proceeded to take some pics of me (online soon!) and carry on drinking and teasing me for over 4 hours! :-P I was so desperate to put the strap on on and give her a fucking of a lifetime, but she wudn't let me, so got her riding crop out and gave my tight ass a good whipping! YAY! Some of the strokes wud sting and it wud make lil drops of precum dribble out of Her cock (as I've said before, it's not my cock anymore). I loved it, feeling the riding crop crack onto my flesh and stinging, hurting deep into my ass cheeks and making me feel sooo horny! Knowing Princess is in charge, that she will administer training and punishments as she sees fit onto Her little sissy subboy. YAY!
Finding a Name for Her Sissy
While she was teasing me and playing with Her sissy, Princess started to think of names for Her pet. I told Her the name I had sometimes used myself but She didn't like it so I wont even put it on here. She liked Ruby, and called me Ruby throughout the night.I love having a sissy name! It allows me to totally get into my role. I can drop all pretext of me being in charge. I want a womans name chosen for me by my Princess. I am the one who needs a name that is fitting for a little sissy like me, not a man's name, a girly name, a sissy name! :-)This morning Princess isn't so sure on Ruby anymore, so I am still waiting to find out my new sissy name that I shall have.Hopefully She will choose a name for me soon!Once She has decided on my new sissy name I will change my profile name to it :-)
Scary Punishments!
Princess read my blog yesterday about how I have been snapping at the drop of a hat and she has decided that she has worked out a list of punishments for various misdemeaners ranging from a light spanking, through to a heavy whipping, right up to a full blown public humiliation that will involve, I'm told, going to seedy Gay Bars and then onto a Gay Club where Princess will make me get completely out of it and offer me up to the men there to use as they want! Where I wake up is anyones guess She says! I plan on being a good boy! But I now know She means business, the look in Her eyes when She told me this was deadly serious, I love it! I love how She wants to use and abuse me! I love to be humiliated! I live to please Her! And I know that this punishment in particular would please Her very much, even though it would be extremely embarassing, awkard, scary, and more for me, if She says we are going I will not put up a fight as I know I will deserve it. She is the Boss, I am the sissy sub that lives to service Her.
I Love You Princess xxx
When we did go to the bedroom, I put the strap-on on and attached the big black dildo She loves so much. Thrusting in and out with such a big dong into Her beautiful pussy made the cock swell in it's cage while she would push down onto the dong and make Herself come over and over. When She was satisfied Princess pushed me off Her, said I had been a good boy and rolled over to go to sleep. I was left to undress myself and clean up, with no relief of course! I love it! This is how a relationship should be! I can pleasure my Princess and follow Her instructions and She can be assured of my devotion and happiness in serving Her. :-)
Hey! What a night! I must have only slept a couple of hours altogether! All night my mind was swimming with horny scenarios! The psychological effects are really kicking in now! YAY!
I would lie down and close my eyes to be met with images of:
Me bent over having my bum paddled till it was bright pink.
Of Princess demanding I dress up in heels, stockings and corset to serve her champagne and strawberries while she plays games on her computer and ignores me.
Of me being tied to the bed and teased till my balls go purple with the strain and Princess fucking herself with a huge dildo at the site of my discomfort.
Of Princess tying me into an all fours (doggy) position and playing with my ass so much that she can strap on fuck me in the ass on cam for her punters while I yelp and skwirm.
Of being tied up against the door with Her in a black PVC Catsuit whipping me with Her riding crop till bright red lines are all over my bum.
Of being dressed in a sissy maids outfit and made to help her perform her web cam duties by getting her drinks and lubing up her toys before being made to watch Her play with Her Pussy and dildos.
Of Princess bringing a girl friend home and making me strip naked so they can inspect Her cock, then them kissing and getting it on while I am hand-cuffed and forced to watch as they bring each other to climax.
Literally my mind was swimming with these and loads more scenes!
Also I should report, I have started to have random outbursts lately, I seem to just suddenly snap, about nothing at all (I think it is almost certainly down to the psychological effects of the lock-up as I am a very chilled person) so I think I may well be getting punished soon, Princess doesn't like me snapping.
My wife tossed in a new twist in our chastity game. First, the CB3000 goes on along with panties, bra and dark ribbed tights. After this comes the VS teddie, I fill a 36B pretty well. Next is a snap bottom turtleneck long sleeved sweater. She made a small hole in each half of the snap bottom and placed a second padlock through that. This locks everything on. I can still sit to pee with some extra effort, but that's about it. She allows me regular jeans with boat shoes and a flannel shirt over the turtleneck sweater. The ribbed tights look like socks she says. I think they look like tights. But, deep breath and it's out to breakfast we go.
This is my first blog. I have been under my mistress control since Oct 08. Im locked in a CB6000 device and im only to come out to wash. Im not allowed to go anywhere near my mistress unless she says so. Mistress gets pleasure from other men as i dont satisfy her anymore. Im desperate to be released but i know it wont happen. Mistress is in complete control of me. She enjoys teasing and making my cock strain in my device and then stops and fulls asleep. There is nothing i can do about it. Im in her slave and that is how it be from now on.
So far I have been locked up for a whole week and I thought it was time for another update. Yesterday I was suddenly overcome with emotions and became very clingy and needy of Princess. All sorts of things were racing through my mind of doubts that I would never get any attention and would be forgotten and neglected. This must be the beginning of the psychological effects of chastity :-D I really love how I am becoming so dependant upon Princess for affection and tenderness, I really appreciate simple things like having the back of my neck rubbed 1000 times more than before. A simple thing like a gentle neck rub takes on a whole romantic and erotic flavour, making my cock swell to fill the cage and tingles run down my spine and over my head. :-)
When chastized these kind of things become even more powerful and sensual and love filled than penetrative sex itself!
I am sure with the psychological effects getting more profound as we travel down this road I will understand that I only get pleasure when Princess wants me too. Never before.
Princess locking me up and taking ownership of my cock is the best thing ever!I am becoming obsessed with pleasing Princess in anyway possible, cleaning the house, making breakfast & dinner, doing the house chores, pleasuring her with my tongue or with the strap on, or with the toys we have. I get so much pleasure from making her cum , much more than I would get from me cumming. I can pleasure her till she is satified and she knows I am ready and willing to get back to work as soon as she needs me. Taking the cock out of the equation means all my attention is on her, and I actually get more pleasure myself from this than from orgasming myself!
Another thing I think I should mention is that I bought Princess a copy of Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholdersby Lucy Fairbourne and she finished it last night. The moment she finished it she woke me up and started teasing me all through the night! Be careful what you wish for they say, hehe, I am soooo glad wishes can come true :-D
I write this so you may better understand why I desire to be confined in this acrylic prison which only you hold the key to. I have not been the man and companion you so truly deserve nor have I been a partner in equal comparision to which you have been to me. Each day, hour and even minute which passes with my phallic symbol of manhood held fast for your own personal usage I find the energy which would normally be used for useless erections being redirected to becoming finely attuned to your own personal wants and desires. I am becoming a better partner for you through chastity. I have begun to notice the seemingly small actions which bring some much joy and happiness to you; a simply foot rub after a long day at work.
I do not want this device to come between our eternal love for one another. You will never know how much I care for you, how I could not go on living without you in my life. You deserve better than what I was before I committed to chastity. The man you fell in love with will always be there; I will be you best friend to laugh and joke with, the asshole to the whole world except you and your soul mate for this life and all the ones after.
So if you read the post previous- you'll notice how my pet wrote that he..failed to perform at the standard that was expected, so now he's right back under lock and key until I decide that something artificial isn't enough to satisfy me. Who knows how long that could be?
Chores enlisted and fulfilled for the day to start punishment:
Breakfast
Clean the apartment
Bathe Me
Dress Me
Take me out to dinner
Foot rub
In a few- find a way to relax me enough where I can drift off to sleep...or tucker me out.
Day 4.... well I have now been locked for 4 days. This is the first time that I have been in a chastity device. I am a single male, no current girlfriend, which means that I am self locked. I tried this as I felt that I had began to masturbate too much. I was often masturbating several times a day. My first goal is 10 days, which seems to becoming more and more difficult to do. I want to jerk off so bad. I hope that I can make it the 10 days and maybe try for longer after that.
Hey! Last night Princess decided to work from the living room. Princess is a Cam Girl and fucks herself on Webcam for money :-P I was sitting opposite her so that the punters couldn't see me. But I could see everything! She had a lot of punters making her do everything and anything. From talking like a little school girl slut to double penetrating herself with her favourite dildos and really bringing herself off. What a night! My cock was trying to swell up all through it, the tight restriction on my length and the constant tug of the device as my cock tried to swell up and pulled on my ball sack, constricting the balls and giving me that exquiste pleasure/pain that only a chastity device can. Hmmmmm :-) Seeing her take her big black dong hard and furious while sticking her favourite anal dildo in and out of her arse was so horny! I think as time goes by and the time since my last orgasm gets longer and longer I will start to drip precum everywhere when i watch her cam! Hell I will probably start dripping precum 24/7!!!!! :-P Speaking of which I had a little dribble this morning, my first little drip of precum from being chastized. It was so horny to see my trapped dick involantarily drip its fluid through my panties so it showed on my trousers :-) Princess was shattered after her work session and crashed out when we went to bed, I love how she can pleasure herself all the time (she loves to cum!) while I'm trapped and can't get any relief, I think I'm in paradise!!!! Princess would make me get her drinks and sex toys she needed from upstairs and I started to get an overwhelming desire to be dressed as a maid in high heels, stockings, black and white frilly dress, and made to service her whims and fancies while she fucks herself into oblivion for her punters. Oh yes I think that will have to happen!!! :-) I'm off to get Princess some breakfast now, a lil subby's work is never done :-P
Tonight I was given the pleasure of satisfying my KH orally for quite awhile. She wore jeans with the crotch cut allowing me easy access to her along with a white wife beater showing off her beautiful breasts. To top all this off she wore her blue stilleto heels. I started off rubbing down her legs with stress relieving lotion. I plunged my tongue deep into her, rolling her clitoris around in my mouth drinking up her juices. She would dig the spiked heels deep into my back and thighs as she moaned in ectasy. I did this all while locked up in my CB 6000. Unfortunately after about an hour of this I was able to last for only a matter of minutes before I came. This left my KH sightly unsatisfied for which I will have to make up in the future. I look forward to more events like this.
We currently have just dived into male chastity for about 6 months now. Honestly, when my pet first approached me with the idea I was a bit standoffish.. One- I didn't see him as being 'that' guy, y'know, and Second) Where and How did that put the relationship? Was me being dominant supposed to change with how we interacted with one another?
Hey Everyone! Time for a New Years Update! I was locked up for 4 days on my last lock up (28th Dec-1st Jan) and everything was going all great. I however had to fly to the States on the 2nd Jan so Princess unlocked me (I am one of those people who ALWAYS gets searched at the gate, I don't know why, maybe I'm just unlucky, or look shifty lol!) so yeh I had to be unlocked as altho I love being locked 24/7, getting my device out in front of the airport security guards is not something I'm quite ready for yet! I had 3 days with no device, I missed it! I love the feel of restriction on my cock, the way its constantly under the control of Princess and even the slightest semi is not allowed to arise. I am still however Orgasm free, I didn't wank at all during my trip away, I didn't want to (it's not my cock anymore) and I also didn't have time! Was a crazy busy work trip so masturbating didn't even enter my mind, I would get back to the hotel and just flake out! I got back on the 5th Jan and straight away picked up Princess on my way home from the airport, I didn't get locked back up till last night (the 6th Jan) however so that I could get a good nights sleep and get rid of my jet-lag (I was a zombie, lol!). So I am back locked up! YAY! I was allowed a treat of penetrating Princess before being locked up again, but with NO ORGASM! My balls were throbbing so much that even the slightest thrust wud make me have to take deep breaths and focus on not cumming, I succeeded! I kept my cock deep inside Her so that my warm meat cud be felt in the core of her being, but held back my seed so that my yearning can still grow and grow. Thank you Princess! I couldn't do it for long, the tide of desire was sweeping through me and I had to stop or I would have cum. Afterwards we had to go to the shops and my balls were aching the whole time we were walking around. I could tell Princess was getting a buzz out of my discomfort, which would turn me on, and make my balls ache even more! After my balls had calmed down last night Princess told me to go and shower and shave so I could get locked up again, I of course jumped straight in and shaved myself nice and smooth (on a side note I really want to start getting waxed, it will last longer and will make me smoother). Once I was all shaved and clean Princess got the Curve Device out of her handbag and watched me grease up my shaft with baby oil and lock myself away. It's now the morning, Princess was working late last night (she is a Cam-Girl and works all different hours) and was very tired, she is still sleeping right now, I love how pretty she looks when she sleeps, and the way my cock twinges at the site of her cute face. She has had a couple of weeks off over the festive period and the full days work clearly tired her out, when we went to bed she crashed out, after the sugar buzz (from all the U.S sweets I bought her) died down. Today I am being given a list of jobs to do as the start of my Submissive Training, YAY! Now I'm back I will be able to keep this more up-to-date and shall be posting more regularly. I haven't Orgasmed since 28th December 2008 and with no release date planned who knows when the next one will be!
Another day under the control of Princess awaits :-)
