I crave for a true chastity lifestyle, but the most I 've been able to achieve is a voluntary committment to my wife. She is much younger than me, and a little naive in matters of sex, but very open-minded and potential to be positively wicked! I have given her control over when and how I can orgasm. It's now her penis to use how she pleases. I'm not sure that she understands the implications of such a committment!
She does not allow me to have vaginal intercourse, but will give me hand relief, or intstruct me to masterbate while she watches, about once a fortnight. I always ask for permission to ejaculate.
But it's not enough, as you all well know!
I recently introduced her to spanking and whipping, which, I am happy to say, she took to very quickly and is fast becoming most adept at the craft.
What should I do next to get her to take complete control?
After some convincing Mistress Cynthia has taken pitty on me enough to give this sissy slut the gidence that is needed to keep a girl like me in line/chace 24/7. plastic lock number 201419 and no sign of any release date.
So I have now been Instructed to keep this blog of my progression and humiliation to anyone that wishes to read it, and to those that do please feel free to contact Mistress Cynthia on any bad reports you my have on me/any punishment idea's you may wish to share or have administered opon this sissy slut.
I am yet to realise just how strict Mistress Cynthia truely is, but already after just one day of being owned by her she is not very impressed with me and my lack of concentration when it comes to addressing her with my bad grammar, this is unacceptable and only shows disrespect to any Mistress. So after my first lock-in and a nights sleep in rope bondage I now have a punishment waiting for me already!. When will I ever learn. Please feel free to give suggestion that you yourself would feel suitable for such insolence and carelessness.
On the first of June my husband is due to his monthly release and I have made up a little devilish surprise for him. When we reach the magic time in the evening, I will secure his hand on the back in handcuffs – yes I know, I am sometimes a bit lazy or should we say conservative, I like handcuffs, I will soon try to upload a picture of my preferred type – position him naked on his knees on the floor while I am seated in a chair in front of him.
I will now tell him that he is entitled to his monthly treat and that he can choose what he would like me to wear. I will ask him to remain on the floor while I go and dress according to his wishes. On my return I will pose a little in front of him and take delight in his visual consumption of my body – his soon to be reward. I will sit down in front of him and announce that I have decided that he might have to wait for his release to an unspecified date, unless he is able to satisfy a little whimsical request:
At the moment this is one of my favourite teasing music videos, I think some of you frustrated people out there will love it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vj9swNR5-lY
please be sweet to let me know what you think of this video, am I right?
Last night I became turned on by all the thinking I had to put into my descriptions here. It is all a process isn’t it? The more you spell it out the more it moves ahead in a direction. I dressed up in nice minimal white underwear: a relatively new Dutch brand called Marlies Dekkers, a bit like Agent Provocateur but with less ornamentation so to say: suspender belt, panties, 50s beige nylons stockings (bought by my husband, how sweet) and a pair of Yves Saint Laurent high heels with a greenish checker pattern and black pointed leather tip I found in their London Sloane Street shop some years ago at the January sales. I removed the CB3000 form my husband’s private parts and asked him to tie a very tight leather ball stretcher around his sac. Then I laid down on my back in our bed, moved the panties to the side and ordered him to mount me in the missionary position. He dipped nicely in and I told him to fuck me with slow hard thrusting movement – this way every thrust hurts on his balls due to the ball stretcher. In this position I can get my hand around his thigh and squeeze his balls or tap them lightly (or hard for the matter) as he fucks. It is very intense for both of us. He had to resign after two rounds of say five minutes otherwise he would have climaxed – and as we know, this is not permitted; it was not his release date, still six days to go. I ordered him on his back and I tied him spread eagle to the bed. Then I sat on top of him but I didn’t mount him, I just rubbed my panty clad pussy on his member using it to stimulate my clitoris. When I was satisfied with this pleasure I raised, removed my panties and positioned my legs between his face turning towards his legs. I slowly moved my crotch down over his face and he started to lick me with his tongue. In this position I played with his nipples as he performed his duty. I think I sat on his face for quite a while, possibly 15 minutes. Our night exercises was finished. I had to wait a little for his cock to go flat before I could get the CB3000 back on, but he has learned to use all efforts to help in these matters so he never fights against it – his member must go back into my control. I sleep so well after such a treat and I believe that my husband also is a little tired due to his physical performances?
My favourite chastity music is Dannii Minogue, Kylie Minogues little sister. It is a kind of girlie teasing disco style, quite a nuisance, but my husband has learned to associate it with playtime. From my experience it is possible to condition a man in a very exquisite manner through chastity – it reminds me of breeding. Just by putting on a Dannii track like ‘Who do U love’ I can now get his mind to spin around in a profound way. I think music should be used as an affective tool in sexual domination. I hope to be able to provoke a male orgasm at some time just by playing a certain girlie track. At the moment I make music therapy chastity play with my husband: His hands are handcuffed behind his back, his member is out of the CB3000 and I play one of my favourite tracks as I tease and squeeze his nipples, over and over and over again over again. I am sure that I will get him to orgasm just this way sooner or later. My goal is to be able to let him orgasm just by listening to the music track without any manual stimulation. Anyone who dare to bet on this???
At the moment I am especially interested in adventures where I let my husband fuck another woman while I watch. He will of cause not be allowed to reach a climax but I think that it must be a fascinating tour for all parties involved. We could call it controlled unfaithfulness or unfaithfulness in frustration. If anybody have experiences of this sort please let me know. I do have a nice good looking friend that I think would fit the task, at least from an attraction point of view but I haven’t had the courage to let her in on my thoughts. Ahh I don’t know how to do it.
My mistress ofter goes away. This time she has gone with her sister to Spain for 2 weeks. She knows I like to go jiving and 2 weeks before she goes she tells me to shave and shower, when I am clean she watches me put on her, I call it hers as she looks after it, I insert the small lock and she snaps it shut this sends a shudder down my spine. With the words there will be no morning exercis for you and when you dance with those other women you will remember me as your locked dick will remind you! She has been away now a week and keeps sending me text messages saying she might release me when she comes home or I might have to wait a week or so, or it might be after a punishment session! Cant wait to see what she has in store!!!
Well I did it 27 days with out a orgasm this is the longest I have ever gone from the day I first mastabated. Had a few problems with the fitting but have got there in the end, scrotum sore where hinge is, having 4 or 5 days off, hopefully it will be heald before my next lock up I want to try for 35 days without release. I must admit it now feels funny without it on. I have no keyholder this time unless there is someone out there in the uk to keep them for me. So will have to leave them at work I think. And as for the orgasm I have just had it was fantastic, well worth the wait. Don't know I would feel if I was denide it or had it ruined. Going to try milking myself once a week this time as I had 2 night time releases over the last 27 days.
Well I did it 27 days with out a orgasm this is the longest I have ever gone from the day I first mastabated. Had a few problems with the fitting but have got there in the end, scrotum sore where hinge is, having 4 or 5 days off, hopefully it will be heald before my next lock up I want to try for 35 days without release. I must admit it now feels funny without it on. I have no keyholder this time unless there is someone out there in the uk to keep them for me. So will have to leave them at work I think. And as for the orgasm I have just had it was fantastic, well worth the wait. Don't know I would feel if I was denide it or had it ruined. Going to try milking myself once a week this time as I had 2 night time releases over the last 27 days.
You are a follower, not a leader. You are use to being pushed around and taking orders in bed and possibly in everyday life. You do (almost) whatever it takes to make your partner happy in bed. Maybe you enjoy being spanked from time to time or tied down and feeling helpless. The sex doesn't always have to be kinky, but I'd prefer you think that way ^.^... What ever floats your boat. biotch
Q: my mistress is wanting to make my chastity permanent, could you tell me exactly how good the neosteel belts are? many thanks
A:
well... when you are locked into a neosteel there's no chance of getting out (if you don't use heavy tools or the key ) or touching your best part.
It's very impotant to take the right measurements - I highly recommend
the Chastity Belt Measuring Kit. I didn't, and my neo had to be
reworked - and that where another 6 weeks without. But now it fits very
nicely, no inconvenience at all.
I've got the "total" model, a friend of mine is wearing the sports
model almost most of the time and is more than satisfied (if anybody
can be satisfied when he's denied to determine his sexual life) - and
his Lady is keeping him locked up at all times.
So it's up to you (or your Lady) to decide which model you'll choose.
On personal hygenie: No problem at all - you'll take a bath or a shower
as usual. To avoid bad smells I've got a small plastic bottle with a
tipped outlet. So I'm able to spray some water mixed with a little
shower foam into the tube after having peeed. Workes very well. Uh - if
you'll buy a neo, take the Climate Penis Tube. It makes cleaning easier.
The belt: you'll have more freedom of movment if you choose the ergonomic hip belt!
Thanks for asking me - and have a nice time with or without a neo in any case with your Lady
Love
Martha
You scored as A little bit of both. Hey, you love to be in control and out of it. You don't care what position you are playing as long as you can switch around from time to time. Maybe you prefer one over the other (submission/domination) but you don't mind to be the other. Yeah, I know you think it's hot.
Well, my weekend went pretty much the way i thought it would- though not exactly. Mistress was in the mood and i was in my place at her feet. She used the whip and the paddle- but not the crop. It was such a relief to feel her legs comfortably resting on my back and the sharp bite of her paddle marking my ass cheeks with the accuracy of a pendulum clock. i was not allowed to lick her clit from behind as i had hoped. But i was permitted to kiss her rectum and cheeks for at least twenty minutes while she watched the Kentucky Derby and my tongue became quite sore after pushing so deeply into her for so long a time. Since i was blindfolded i didn't see anything for about an hour and a half, except for a couple of quick chores that required sight- getting a glass of wine for mistress and getting her towel, which she likes to lay across the bed when i lick her cunt. Eventually she came violently bucking my lips and squeezing my head between her legs as i knelt in front of her. The pressure of her legs wrapped tightly around my head left me gasping for air. Gradually her legs lowered in to place on top of my shoulders as she relaxed after her orgasm and i kept very still for a long time in the darkness of my blindfold while she recovered from her sexual trance the weight of her legs draped over my head and shoulders wrapping me in a snug shelter of submission. After she stood to stretch her arms and legs, i placed the towel in the dirty clothes hamper and returned to my place in front of her chair and she sat and placed her legs over my back and sighed deeply. i remained as her footstool, still blind folded for some time until she decided to have me play with my nipples for her entertainment. After a while she told me to stop and remove my hands from my chest while she whipped my nipples with her short white flogger. She really stung them good with her whip until i was almost crying, then she said that i was to make a drop. i knelt before her, tingling with sexual excitement and very close to cuming. My cock and balls were tightly rapped with vet tape so that i would not receive pleasure through accidental touches. Settling back on my folded feet i could feel the semen rising in my little clit. Seeing that i was so close to cuming mistress then slapped me across the face three or four times, quite hard. My little penis jerked once- not an orgasm, but just enough pressure to push the semen out of the shaft- two or three large drops. i remained semi-erect while the cum puddled in my left hand. Then she told me to go into the bathroom and eat it. She does this i think because she knows it disappoints me to be dismissed to the bathroom where i know she can't see me completing my task. In the bathroom mirror i can see myself submissively licking the cum from the palm of my hand. Then i washed my hands and wiped my mouth dry, returned to my place as her footstool and waited for the few remaining lashes across my ass that she delivered before it was time to make dinner. As i say it didn't go exactly the way i thought it would, but i was very satisfied in my submissive sissy sort of way and as always really pleased that i was granted so many privileges by Mistress. It is always fun to see her grow so comfortable and relaxed after things have gone exactly according to her plan.
Locked up 2 month's now. Didn't realy think it would be this long but here I am.
It took a bit of getting use to especialy going to the bathroom. Alway's use a stall now. got to sit to pee. My wife love's that no problem with the seat left up. Had to buy one size larger panty to fit it but they still fit good. most humiliating thing is having to show it to my wife's lover's. I'm do for a jerk off this weekend I hope she keep's her word I could realy use it.
Well my first 2 weeks of lock up. not gone fully to plan had to beg to get key off temp keyholder after 5 days she gave me 90 seconds to change A ring to next size as it was so painful on my scrotum when erect it was making it sore, so went up a size and added small POI to stop from me from pulling out. less painful on a night. Had to get keys back this weekend due to my scrotum piercing the cb as been rubbing on it, can not give key back untill tuesday temptation too much today played with it but only to the point of pre cum, then stopped. the whole point of this is to stop masturbating. so have put middle sized POI in for two days as punishment. Well only another two weeks to go hopefully without any problems. cbpete
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