Posted by: mrsclaudia in Chastity on
May 25, 2009
One of my all time favorite playtime activities is Tease and Denial. When I first starting learning about this I was fascinated. I actually learned that this was a huge turn on for me even before I started my D/s lifestyle. It started at night when my husband and I would lie in bed together and I would lazily run my arm across his cock. At first I didn't even realize I was doing it.
Then I would start tickling his thighs and lower stomach, always sliding my arm and fingers past his cock or balls. Before I knew it he would start to breath heavily when I would do this. I began to do more and more caressing around his privates but not actually making direct contact. After a while I took it farther and would slide my hand over him and he would almost jump, trying desperately to get better contact with my hand. When he would do this I would stop. "You will just lie there and be still and quiet." Of course he did and before I knew it he was promising all kinds of things, trying to get me to go farther.
Wow, it is amazing what you can get a man to do when you tease him. Hence the benefit for the Domme. I was watching a supposed Tease and Denial video last night that was nothing more than a porn tagged as a tease and denial. The woman had the guy gagged and tied to the bed and then she proceeded to "tease" him for about 45 minutes. She even licked his cum off of him after she had let him cum!! Yeah right. The only one licking cum after one of our play sessions is my submissive!!!
As I was watching this all I kept thinking is "I hope the male submissive does not think this is what tease and denial is like!!" She was exerting 150% of her attention on him and he just layed back and enjoyed. Well, not in my world. See when you get a man so desperate to orgasm and you deny him that privilege, you can get him to say and do all kinds of things. This is where the benefit of the Domme truly comes into play.
First, you can get your submissive to a place he is willing to do pretty much anything, even things he wouldn't necessarily do otherwise. Humiliation play works really well at this point. For
years and years men have complained that women don't swallow. Well, this is his opportunity to see why women don't like to swallow. Make him beg you to eat his cum off a dildo in order for him to be allowed to cum. Get him to promise that he will wash the toilets, naked with a toothbrush. Make him promise whatever you want. I promise he will comply. I am into getting him to do some pretty nasty things. You must make him do whatever you made him promise. If you don't, he will say yes to anything knowing you won't follow through. You can also follow through sometimes and not others. This works well when you get him to promise something really humiliating, he thinks you won't follow through, and then you do. Wicked I know!!
We had a wedding anniversary recently.
As my gift to my beloved, I handed over the key to my CB6000, a certificate of chastity, and a signed contract with the terms and conditions. The period of the contract is ongoing and unlimited, so now I am in complete sexual submission to her.
She is still rather new to this, so we had a discussion about what might be my limits, turn-offs, etc. We've had this discussion before, of course, but I think she wanted to know if my answers had changed now that I am locked-up.
Posted by: ubique45 in Untagged on
May 14, 2009
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Posted by: sirplato in Untagged on
May 14, 2009
Just browsed this special site and found that Vita has an interest in me.. I have just learned I have an interest in becoming submissive, as I have Domed and Femenized several young males, three of which now live life as Females. all who have legal docs as a Female, one who now is employed by the US Postal service. I do not closet my sissys but when they become passable under my care I take them to First Class Resorts, like the DON CESEAR, so Google that and see. I also give dinner partys for local Sissys and their wives, to enjoy the honesty of there new life, and I dont prepare Peasant Food, Dineing with friends is an Art form and not a Task. I do yield my joys in helping to become passable, to anyone in this life as my truth, come meet me, challange me, and....Not ashamed that in this time in life I also have the need to submit to a dominant lady or a Dominant very passable Shemale who has achieved the excellence I have developed in others.
My Epithath on a stone near my parents shall read "He Enevied No Man" and those Sissys who I have Developed, and found joy in there life and nots shame,
will be there for me at the last,
Plato
Posted by: 0 in Chastity on
May 14, 2009
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i have cb6000---i am finding it really hard to put on. the shaft is so narrow,ive been lubing and shoving the skin in with a q-tip. any suggestions?. and for real long term wear? |
Posted by: chastity slave in Chastity on
May 9, 2009
My latest lock up has taken a twist,im now under the control of a male(something i never imagined)it feels great to be locked again and am enjoying my latest chastisement
I was hoping to stay self locked for 14days but now that sir is in control it might be alot longer,not sure what sir has in store for me guess i will have to wait and see!
Posted by: Vitas toy in Untagged on
May 6, 2009
Had a coffee and long chat with Ms Vita this mornin.We talked about various subjects. This toy did of course get embarassed with certain talk since noone was in there and the ppl working there were listoning and looking. /blush. But overall it was fun but I could of done some things better like talk less and I didnt bring a gift that she was not pleased about.Shes a busy woman with a full life for sure and has a dominant lover so we will have to see where things go but he knows that she has little toys on the side she said.So maybe it is ok we will see.She allowed me to kiss her hand and that was nice and made me a little hard.I am hoping to learn more about what shes into but one thing she made clear. She doesnt go part way in the play she enjoys and that she loves pushing a slaves limits.. then more .. then more.I squirmed and avoided eye contact hearing this and I am sure she noticed.Glad I went.
toy
Posted by: Vitas toy in Untagged on
May 5, 2009
Hello all ....Vita's toy waldo again. I am going to meet the wonderful Ms Vita tomorrow morning .I am of course nervous but feel lucky and special inside that I get to meet her after about a week or so of chating and obeying her commands online.I have to relax and remember that we are real people and would have to both feel the chemisty for things to progress further.It may work and it may not but she is worth taking the chance and so am I even though she is superior of course.I hope I am not too nervous to smile for her.I am glad she choose a public place for meet as we with both feel comfy.Will see how it goes but as a male ...even a submissive male you have to be brave and step and and meet her face to face and take a shot at something great.So thats what I am going to do tomorrow morning so wish me luck all.
Vita's toy
Posted by: omega369 in Chastity on
May 4, 2009
I am, I think, at the climbing walls stage.
First time locked and at 13 days and counting down to release on 23rd May 2009.
Still getting night and early morning erections and this morning had a play with my KH.
She had her leg under my balls and was pushing them around listening to me moan and groan.
She also played with my CB and asked if I wanted to "come out". I said "No" and there were no arguments from her. I half expected her to say that she wanted me out, but no, locked I stayed and her enjoying herself.
I was writhing around in a mixture of pleasure, frustration and resignation that I am locked and will not be allowed to cum until at least May.
My KH seems to be enjoying things and was very aroused by my predicament that's for sure.
Once she was satisfied she just got out of bed and left me moaning and trying to find some sort of relief - there wasn't any needless to say !!
She seems to know how to really make me suffer !!
Posted by: maidsally in Chastity on
May 3, 2009
I have got a few spare mins , i was awake at 5 and had to wait till i was unlocked ,unlocked then i was allowed to clean up. when i got Mistresses room my cloths were waiting ,short pink and very frilly with underwear and 5inch lockable shoes. once dressed my collor locked and cuff fitted throu the collor with 4 inches of chain and a hobble chain around my ankles ,then the walk to the car it took for ever .to mother in laws luckly she has a drive and mistress parked next to the door,inside mistress chained me to the banister at the top of the stairs kissed me good bye and left.
an hour chained to a banister waiting then MIL comes out of here room she unlock me and makes me kneel in front of here,straight off she opens her dressing gown and straddles my face i had to drink pee for what seems like forever.she said get used to it iam not peeing in anything esle all weekend,luckly she did the other in the bathroom.she has a shower then i have to dry her with the short cuff chains this means every inch close to my face ,then she wants body lotion everywherefor about 30 mins .all this time shes telling me what fun shes going to have,then i make her tea and toast and knee while she eats.
she then tells me that she knows its my day ror shooting my little load ,iam now bright red trying to hide my face in shame, she tell me to stand and she cups my balls .this was so embarassing and she says by the end of the weekend you'll beg my little girl for a sex change .then she squeezes till i fall to my knees in tears .this is only 9 oclock
Posted by: Vitas toy in Untagged on
May 2, 2009
Hello all, this is Vita's little toy waldo. I am very lucky that such a wonderful woman is considering taking me on as her personal toy. A toy that with her guidance can and will become her lovely creation that she can be proud of and use to her heart's content. As a stray submissive I am overly excited already and have to keep myself at a more relaxed level in the future so I can better obey her and not make mistakes.
I have never been a locked up slavetoy before so alot of thoughts run though my mind of course. What will happen with my little dick that is my main sexual outlet locked up? How much will this help me become her slavetoy? Hoping alot....I will need and beg for her guidance and chastity will help alot in my slave training as she molds me into the creation of her liking. I know that with my little dick locked up I will be able to focus on Ms Vita's pleasure and i am thankfull for it if that should happen. She will then intoduce me to other parts of her training that I dont know at this time but I am excited and eager to learn.
Ms Vita's toy waldo
Posted by: notyalc in Chastity on
May 2, 2009
my Mistress/Wife says i must update everybody on what has been going on, well since my last blog which this new blog system has lost humm. iam now a cuckold ijust cant belive how things have gone , i have had no relife for 3 months now ,not even milking i have begged Mistress and Miss Sue but since theyve both got boy friends they say to give me an orgasam would be unfaith full. they both have still shagged me with a strap on and i can give them all the oral they requier . but mu cock or as its called now clit hasn't been touch in3 months but for a wash with the bog brush
Posted by: maidsally in Chastity on
May 2, 2009
well if i thought last weekend was going tobe bad , i was really wrong it was the most humiliating and painfull weekend ever. i was so happy 22.00 on sunday to go home. later i'll write some of it but Mistress is due back v soon
