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 Some questions from another user and my answers:

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First, and foremost... is the belt secure for you?!
> Yes.
Have you been able to defeat it or orgasm in it at all?
> No chance to defeat - but orgasm is possible depending on the circumstances (f.x. when tied up it's easy for me to orgasm in the belt).
Second is it comfortable?
> There are only a few models which are comfortable, I believe. Most crucial is correct measuring - if it's done wrong, comfort and security may be gone. Yes, it is comfortable if measuring and fine tuning (bending) are done.
How about while sitting at a desk for long periods?
> See the answer above. There rather are no limitations.
Periods of activity?
> See above.
I like the idea of the total design, the open rear (for strap on and prostate play), and the locking rear, but fear it may not be as comfortable as some of the other styles in the long run.
> As far as I know the most comfortable design is the Neosteel "The Arch" - and it's possible getting it with open rear ("Ergo Rear".
Do ever experience any pinching, pressure, chafing, or bruising on your rear as a result of that belt style?
> Yes, as long as the fine tuning wasn't done. But then there are no problems.
How long are you aboe to wear the belt for, and what's you longest lockdown period now?! I believe your website said something like 3 weeks was your longest. Are you still locked in it often and long term?
> No longer than those three weeks but if my wife had wished, it could have been a quite longer period. For me, I had no problems at all.
If you had to choose a belt again, would you choose the same one? The same rear style?
> Wish I could afford "The Arch" - I'd buy it at once (with "Ergo Rear".

If you like to know more about The Arch, ask Gweny - she's wearing it continously for several months now.

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Well, there's gone by some time since my last entry and I'd like to tell something about my expiriences wearing that device.

Once more I discovered that the right bending of the shield is crucial. There was a time I when I rubbed myself sore, and that prompted me to write a mail to Neosteel that this situation wasn't bearable... But - after my wounds had healed and bending the shield again and again, it now fits snugly. Wearing it over longer periods of time isn't a problem anymore and I feel happy with the security that no neoprene profile can resolve itself and cause other problems .

A big thank you to gweny (aka andrea1) because it was her idea to exchange that neoprene profile to a rounded steel. She also introduced this method to Neosteel and voila... the Masterpiece was born!

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These days a new chapter for me began, 'cause a few weeks ago I ordered a new shield for my Neo She-Male System Total Module. The silcone lining of the old one was destroyed just by wearing it . But now this problem is solved permanantly: The all new "Masterpiece" version has no neoprene or silicone lining - it's just stainless steel - and that can't wear out .

And one more thing changed: The penis tube now is slightly shorter but still long enough. The benefit of this is a tighter fit of the whole construction and it's even more comfortably to wear. Another benefit of the tighter fit: My front is flatter than before.

And the crucial question at last: How much was it? Well, Neosteel says the price of the "Masterpiece" depends on it's size, so they can't make one prize for all. Mine was 400,00 EUR (ca. 575,- USD or 290,- BPd). Seems to be a lot, but I feel it's worth every cent...

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Q: my mistress is wanting to make my chastity permanent, could you tell me exactly how good the neosteel belts are? many thanks

A:  well... when you are locked into a neosteel there's no chance of getting out (if you don't use heavy tools or the key ) or touching your best part.
It's very impotant to take the right measurements - I highly recommend the Chastity Belt Measuring Kit. I didn't, and my neo had to be reworked - and that where another 6 weeks without. But now it fits very nicely, no inconvenience at all.
I've got the "total" model, a friend of mine is wearing the sports model almost most of the time and is more than satisfied (if anybody can be satisfied when he's denied to determine his sexual life) - and his Lady is keeping him locked up at all times.
So it's up to you (or your Lady) to decide which model you'll choose.
On personal hygenie: No problem at all - you'll take a bath or a shower as usual. To avoid bad smells I've got a small plastic bottle with a tipped outlet. So I'm able to spray some water mixed with a little shower foam into the tube after having peeed. Workes very well. Uh - if you'll buy a neo, take the Climate Penis Tube. It makes cleaning easier.
The belt: you'll have more freedom of movment if you choose the ergonomic hip belt!

Thanks for asking me - and have a nice time with or without a neo in any case with your Lady
Love
Martha

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More than a year ago I purchased a Neosteel chastity belt and it took a while to get it fitted properly. Not only I had to bend it, but there were some modifications to be done by Neosteel, who were very kind and least made it happen - now I'm wearing the belt without any problems at all .

So we (my wife and me) thought this device to be a thing just to play with. But - now I'm locked up in this thing since Jan. 6th (of course this year!), and my wife is my keyholder. There were just 2 occasion I've got unlocked - only for cleaning reasons. I handed the keys to my wife (actually one is in a sealed envelope, the other one she's wearing permanently with a silver necklace). Well, since yesterday she's not wearing the necklace - and I've got no idea where the hell this key may be .

On last sunday she promised to unlock me for maybe a week - but at this very moment I'm still locked up - and there's no speech of getting unlocked ...

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