Guys - As most of you know meeting a woman online or in a real life setting who also shares our passion for chastity, D/s or Femdom is not as easy as it sounds.  When creating your personal add you should not only include what "fetish interests" you have but information about you as a man.  Women are interested in more than just what our kinks are.

Also, don't discount that most couples in a D/s or a "kind of kinky relationship" did not meet with "this" intention.  What you do need is a woman with an open mind who would be interested in exploring fetishes with you once she gets to know.  So even though we might be different from the "average" guy she probably wants to know you have a real life and vanilla interests that match/compliment hers as well.  So don't limit yourself to just posting ads in "kink" style personals.  You can write a well written ad in a more vanilla style dating site and subtly mention that you are a fun loving kinky kind of guy.