This blog is to answer a few questions that may arise from a post I put in the forum entitled "Ladies doyatell..."

   I am the oldest of 5. The brother I speak of in the forum is the youngest. He is 10 years My junior. While growing up, our parents both worked full time and I was often responsible for the care of My younger siblings, especially #5. We came from a very close knit family. Our parents were big on doing things as a family, ie. camping, hiking, skiing, eatting at least one meal a day around the dining room table, watching tv in the evening, etc.

  Fast forward to present day. We are all adults now, 35 years old and up. We still all get together (with spouses and children) several times a year. When we do, the jokes fly, we poke fun of one another, give each other garbage, and ultimately, a little piece of each of us makes itself known to the others if they are open to it. I believe that the conversation leading up to present day involved tattoos and piercings. I have a tat on my left wrist that incorporates the BDSM symbol. He asked what it meant. I explained. When the conversation came to the subject of piercings, I told him about mine and hubby's. Both he and his wife were curious and the conversation progressed. Shortly thereafter, I received an e-mail from him telling me about this fantastic swinger's site he and his wife were members of. Through e-mail, we discussed our respective lifestyles. I looked at his site, he came to this one and looked around.

  Then, this past summer during one of our camping family get togethers, late at night, while just the 4 of us were sitting around the campfire, the topic turned to chastity. His wife was very interested as, per their lifestyle, they are often involved with mulitple couples. One of their personal rules is no penetration with anyone other than each other. Even though it had never occured and she really has no need to worry, she thought chastity would be a perfect addition to that. She was extremely curious as to what a chastity looked like, how it worked, etc. I happened to have brought the device with us and got it for her. My brother was the one that took it from me. He commented on what fun it could be to be placed in one on a night when they went out. She asked how it went on. That was when my hubby offered to show her. She accepted his offer and both she and my brother watched with rapt attention as he demonstrated.  She was absolutely delighted with the results, commenting that they should really consider getting one for my brother. He agreed, but was very reluctant to consider a P.A. piercing. He said he's chicken!

So, that's how we got to this point. We are all adults. We accept and revel in our differences. We are not judgemental or discriminative. And we treasure the openess in communication that we share.

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