It has always been said that we always want, or obsess, over what we can’t have even to the point where it’s now become a cliché. Well, now in this magnificent practice it’s EXACTLY what that means with such an incredible twist and originality that I am quite frankly saddened that this practice of orgasm teasing and denial is not practiced much by a mass group of people (apart from us).

Then again, as with all people of the same opinion, do we really want this to go mainstreamed? Does that sound really stupid? After all, even though OT&D is not the be-all and end-all of BDSM as it’s a practice worthy of the BDSM stamp. It’s just that OT&D has taken off as an individual practice all of its own and is well worthy to be recognised under its own uniqueness.

With each and every stroke of the cock that brings one to the very edge of an orgasm, and thus denied that much needed relief, desperation to have an orgasm is ensued but there is ALWAYS a feeling of disappointment if we have one as we always want the tormenting to continue. That is our definition of pleasure and satisfaction – even though actual release may not occur.

The piéce de resistance for me (and I’m sure others) is that point after so many denials and a prolonged period of tormenting which always creates a feeling of uncertainty as to whether I will eventually end up bringing myself over the edge and accidentally-on-purpose make myself cum. It’s such an incredibly hard practice to go through as it definitely promotes discipline. Nature wants us to cum, but we deny it ourselves (or our sadistic cruel partners do in delight) prolonging the masochistic pleasure even though there’s no actual pain – just exquisite passion rising to the brink and beyond and still we enjoy the denial.

Such joy, such delight. And very yum-yum, baby! 

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