I can't be much different sexually speaking from most males who crave chastity. I think there's always this sense of wanting to be on the edge. Many of us certainly fantasize about being enslaved sexually. While sexually frustrated we let ourselves be humiliated beyond reason. It's that living on the edge, tip toeing the line of sanity.

I first was interested in chastity to enhance my orgasms. I used to wait out the week and then have an orgasm say on Friday. It does feel very good. Masturbating can desensitize one's genitals and waiting allows the tissues to become soft and velvety. In aiding to my own demise I would rub baby oil all over my genitals before I went to bed to "prepare them".

I used to use chastity for strength as well. When I was ill I used to be driven out of my mind waiting for say a flu to pass. If I had a goal I would use chastity to give me strength. You let off different vibes when your balls are aching.

I tried chastity with a gf a few times. The first time I lasted a month, boy did that hurt when I released lol Then another time 3 weeks, it also hurt real bad! Muscle spasms you know. The first time we just kissed and stuff. The second time I offered my tongue. She loved the pleasuring but she was too submissive herself. Imagine someone turning down an oral slave who took great pride in giving a longggggggggg licking?!?! This brings up a problem I think a lot of us have.

We have a hard time finding someone who enjoys this sort of play. I mean most submissives want chastity as part of a relationship. They just want to submit to their woman and show they're not selfish. The average women isn't ready for such. You can't force someone into this. I'm clever and subtly hinted but it does no good if the person sees no logic in it. Face it chastity the idea of giving up probably your greatest pleasure you've had since you reached puberty is insane! I mean the idea of openly talking about such and introducing devices to lock yourself away is bound to shake a few people the wrong way.

I've never used a chastity device. In many ways I'd question their safety. I can go without an orgasm for quite a long time considering. I have a healthy sexual appetite. When the idea of chastity is introduced I can suffer immensely after a week. Where as I could just simply not have an orgasm for a week, keep my mind on other things and really not notice. You see it's all about longing. Chastity only works if you have someone to long for. For me I ned to know that person will appreciate my sacrifice and let me worship her. I've done a little chastity online but it's not for me.