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In my opinion male chastity control can and should be an act of faith, love and trust My Dark SecretBy a loving wife (and Keyholder) My name is K and I have a dark secret.I am a keyholder. I hold the key to the sex of my husband of 30+ years.But his wearing the lock in not about ME. It is about US! After 30 years of marriage we were losing interest in each other. Gone was the romance, the tenderness, the warm cuddles, the sweet consideration on both our parts and the really great sex. Now sex was something that happened when He wanted it. It was in out, a kiss, a hug and “later”. In short our sex life was designed around his satisfying a need, about once a month, with only minimal consideration given to my wants. There was always little or no foreplay and I was totally bored with that part of our life.Many times my husband was simply “not up to it”. Then one friend suggested I try an Internet chat room for senior sex. There I ran into a OB/Gyn from Columbia who said that part of my problem was a low estrogen level typical of women who are 50 plus, but that didn’t have to be. There were two routes I could take, estrogen replacement therapy or pills or being “stimulated” and having sex daily. I proposed that to my husband who said “That would mean Viagra and testosterone therapy, which would cost about $55.00 per week. Did you know that each Viagra pill costs $7.50? He said as he left the room. I got the OB/Gyn to meet me in a private room and got her phone number and made an appointment to meet her at her home. Before the appointment I talked about the situation with friends who said that it was a normal part of aging. I did not like that answer. When I met the Doctor at her home I told her my problem and she told me of a radical solution. “Now you must have an open mind and a willing husband to make this work. Did you know that if your husband were to wear a locking chastity device and you were the keyholder in about 2 days his testosterone level would climb to that of a 30 year old? “ “Would that help regain his energy and desire for sex and romance? I asked. “Of course!” It worked for my husband and I. “How did you get him to agree?” “I found a lady engineer in Columbia, named “Techie”, who had designed the perfect device, it is called a “Chastilock”. The Chastilock is locked around your husband’s penis between the head and the shaft. With it in place he cannot masturbate, or get any sexual relief. He is constantly teased by its presence. By the way an erection is a very uncomfortable experience.” With that she invited her husband into the room. “Lover, this lady is K and she is having the same problems we once had. Would you please show her your Chastilock and tell her about it?” He willingly dropped his slacks and underwear to reveal a lock around his penis. “This lock is modified with a piece called a saddle on the lock body, some little drops of weld on the bail or the part that does the locking and a rubber/epoxy coating so it does not irritate. The saddle has a groove in it so I can urinate with no restriction. The drops of weld and the upper edges of the saddle prevent removal without the key. It fits tight, but does not restrict blood flow. With this in place my sex is totally under her control.” The doctor pulled a chain with a gold key up from her sweater. “How do you feel?” I asked. “I feel like a teenager. I have more energy and I think of my wife every time the lock sways and teases me.” he replied confidently. “Would you two mind explaining this to my husband?” “No problem, usually we invite several other couples who are using the lock. The men will help you husband through adaptation to putting on the lock and giving you the key.” “How soon could I get a lock?” I have several different sizes in stock. All I have to do is to file the saddle for precise fit.” The doctor explained. “Can I modify the lock?” I asked. “I want to have some fun with him. I want a single loop in the front and three large loops on the bail” I explained. “No problem.” The doctor’s husband answered. “Why the mods?” I giggled as I explained, “The front loop is for fun, say a leash or maybe a bell. The top loops are to make the lock bulky enough so that in order to urinate He cannot go through the fly, instead he must drop his slacks and underwear. He will have to go in a stall. I want him to see what I have to go through..” Here it is. As you can see some of the coating has been worn off. That is all history. Now our life is great. On his 60th birthday he had a full physical with al the blood work. Guess what?His testosterone level was “Acceptable” for a man in his 30’s. My husband is now truly my lover. He romances me every day. Every morning I am awakened with a loving caress, kisses and a full body massage. He knows that sex happens only when I want it so he tries to make the massage a stimulating and erotic as possible. If I am distracted or not interested he can add "direct genital stimulation" in order to make me really want sex. With the lock in place I am his only sexual relief, he cannot:MasturbateHave an erectionHave any form of sexual release. Correct fit is critical so that escape is impossible and urine flow is not obstructed. The lock must not be uncomfortable or too comfortable either, its fit must present a perfect balance of control, security and freedom. My husband/ lover of these 30 + years is not a slave, but a willing partner who has given me and me alone control of his sex. By placing himself in the Chastilock and giving me the key he has displayed the ultimate example of trust, faith and love. And I love him more than ever!
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