| Abduction | To kidnap or carry a person away by force, also used in sex play.
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| Ageplay | Ageplay is a type of sexual roleplaying or BDSM in which a person pretends to be an infant, child or adolescent. Technically, infantilism is a subset of ageplay.
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| Alternate sexuality | Alternate sexuality is any form of sexuality which does not comform to what society considers to be normal.
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| Autoeroticism | Autoeroticism is the practice of fulfilling one's own sexual needs without a partner.
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| BDSM | 
BDSM is a catch all phase used to describe an interest in a number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour including sadomasochism, power exchange or bondage. Strictly speaking fetishism is a not part of BDSM, but fetish imagery but is very common in visual depiction of BDSM activities.
The major sub-groupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM" itself:
bondage & discipline (B&D)
Domination & submission (D&S, DS, D/S)
sadism & masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M, SM)
To someone outside of the fetish / BDSM scene it might appear to be a very homgeneous group of people, this is not the case however. An interest in BDSM is a paraphilia and as such the stimulous that brings on the sexual arousal in an individual will vary from person to person. For one person objectification and sexual humiliation might be a huge turn on whilst the thought of being caned by a dominant does nothing to them at all. For another person the reverse might be the case.
This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe, sane and consensual), though others prefer RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), which places the emphasis more on informed consent, and acknowledges the fact that all activities are potentially risky.
Psychological
In the past, sadomasochistic activities and fantasies were regarded by most psychiatrists as pathological, but have been regarded as increasingly acceptable since at least the 1990s. Indeed, the DSM-IV asserts that "The fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviours" must "cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning" in order for sexual sadism or masochism to be considered a disorder. People who practice BDSM tend to reject the view of their activities as disordered.
Power exchange
The term power exchange is associated with a submissive exchanging his/her authority to make decisions (either just for a scene, or for his/her entire life) for the dominant's agreement to take responsibility for his/her happiness and health.
The nature of the power exchange varies greatly and can be explicitly negotiated or implicit in the consensuality of the relationship.
Submissive behaviour
A submissive person is one who submits of their own free will and seeks to submit to another. This can be in the context of play times within a set scene, totally immersed within a power exchange relationship or anywhere in between.
Dominant behaviour
A dominant person enjoys being with a submissive person, either just during a scene or as a way of life. Reasons for this include a desire for personal power; being the object of devotion; having the resources and abilities of another human at their disposal; sadism.
Switching
Some practitioners of BDSM enjoy switching — that is, playing both dominant and submissive roles, either during a single scene or taking on different roles at different occasions with different partners. A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other occasions. A 'switch' may be in a relationship with someone of the same primary orientation (two dominants, say), so switching provides each partner with an opportunity to realise his or her unsatisfied BDSM needs with others.
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| Chastity Belt (The Drink) |
Ingredients:
2 cl Tia maria
1 cl Hazelnut liqueur
1 cl Bailey's irish cream or cream
1/2 cl Cream
Mixing instructions:
Layer in order.
Source: http://www.webtender.com/db/drink/3089
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| Chastity Lifestyle | In terms of a chastity lifestyle it usually means a couple, a dominant female and a male submissive, that engage in chastity play on a regular and/or ongoing basis, instead of using chastity during a scene or sex play.
Its the level of integration that one chooses to include a fetish into their everyday life. It also usually shows a strong commitment to a specific fetish or type of play.
In many alternative subcultures, as compared to "the norm", the term lifestyle is added to a word and means that the person or people engaged in an activity do it on a regular basis, as opposed to something they try on occasion.
Examples:
Chastity Lifestyle
Femdom Lifestyle
D/s (Dominance & submission) Lifestyle
Swinger Lifestyle
Nudist Lifestyle
Cuckold Lifestyle
Gorean Lifestyle
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| Creampie | This terms stems from the porn industry and refers to the male orgasming inside the woman instead of on her body or face (the porno money cum shot).
In D/s it is taken one step further and a submissive male gives oral sex after he or another man has ejaculated inside a woman's vagina or anus.
The term creampie is used most often in cuckold stories and fiction. The dominant wife takes on a lover and on a regular basis has her submissive husband/boyfriend give her oral sex after she has had a sexual trist with her extra-marital lover. This is done to show power and dominance over her submissive and to sexually humiliate him. Though some men with bisexual desires enjoy this type of play and do not experience a 'great' amount of humiliation because they are engaged in something they enjoy.
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| Cuckold |
- A husband whose wife chooses to have lovers.
- A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife's pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck,even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.
- A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife's sexual pleasures become the husband's vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences.
- A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis, suffer from premature ejaculation, 'enjoy' sexual humiliation and are rarely able to satisfy their wives.
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| Cuckold Humilation |
 The humilation, submissive feelings and possible subspace a submissive man feels when he is cuckolded by his wife/girlfriend/Mistress. Each couple finds there own way in terms of cuckolding. Some women simply enjoy having there husband watch or know they are having sex with other men, while still having sex with her husband. Though for some Femdom couples the male is very restricted in terms of sex, masterbation and orgasm.
NOTE: This type of humiliation is sought out by a submissive male and cuckolding should be consensual.
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